Anyone can be Lier / Cheater

It doesn't matter who you are,

It doesn't matter how you dress,

It doesn't matter either what is your profession,

You can still be a Lier or Cheater....

I hate it so much when:

You said you gonna call me back, and you didn't;

You said you gonna hangout with me next week, and you didn't;

You said you gonna have lunch / dinner with me, and you didn't show up;

No apology, no guilty and no offense;

It was just me, that took things seriously.

I would have take things easily,

If I don't value a single thing between you and me...

I would have just say NO.....

If I have no intend to maintain our relationship;

I would have just STOP picking up your calls,

If I have decided to let you go...

So....

Before I STOP all connections with you,

Do take our relationship seriously....

You just can't forget

One of the hot topic in the family gathering will be: Do I have a boy friend.

If my answer is "YES", the next statement will be: Bring him along for the next gathering.

If my answer is "NO", the next question will be: When you gonna get one?

But my answer is never been a "YES"....... And I would just like to remind all the people who care about my status that: things happen for a reason. I'm just not ready to have anything right now and I'm happy with my single life.

It has been quite a number of years, I never feel in love. 

After that incident, my heart has completely shut. Loving into someone, it just something has gone far from me.

I have to apologize to those who are interested on me.... I can feel it when I was with you guys. Unfortunately, I'm not ready for a relationship. It's not your fault, it's mainly about my past which I can't even get ride of it.

The wound is heal with scars and unforgettable pain.

I knew I have to move on, but sometimes you just can't forget the pain...

Birthday Pressie 2012

On the 29-Jun, I received a great present from one of my ex-colleague in office:

~ A bunch of roses~

Flower Received in Office

The roses come with 3 different colours..
It was the most lovely present i received on this remarkable day. 


I'm very touch for what you have done for me....
But Sorry....
I'm not ready for a relationship.

I knew I may missed a good guy which i been searching for my whole life...
But I'm not intent to engage in a relationship with anyone without the fundamental of mutual LOVE.

Let's just maintain as a good friend like usual... 
And thank you for the roses...

It must be hard for her

We like to create hypothetical questions before we engage to the actual case so that we always "be prepared". 

Before I engage to a relationship, I did throw a hypothetical question to myself:
"Will I able to stay in touch with my bf, If we broke up at the end?" 

It took me few weeks to figure out... And I came out with a conclusion that: No...I can't be friend with my ex-bf...because his shown up will "reminds" me all the good old days...the sweet memories that we had.... 
Thus... To stop all the hard feeling... Ex-bf... will never walks into my life again..

And I did stay "out of touch" with all the ex-es I had....
I tried to avoid the "outing" or 'meeting" with them, if possible....
As meeting them face to face creates an awkward atmosphere between "him" and myself... 
And sometimes, you have no choice to fake your "smile" just to show your courtesy and actually, your heart is crying... 
I just can't take it... seriously....

And that's why... I feel what "she" did today... It's really cool....

It's "her" ex-bf's birthday today... and we're going to have a short celebration with her ex-bf with the ex-bf's current gf. 
I wonder why she can still remain Happy and Smile in front of everyone... Helping us to take the group photos...

It must be kinda hard for her, right? But she still smile and stay cool...
and the night was by such a graceful lady...

Vivi@n... 
Bravo...  
 
 

Just tell him You love him!!

I always give a hand to people who need my help....
But I've forgotten that, I'm not GOD...
Sometimes even God comes into the play, it still yet to be solved.

We're more than just colleague...
We're friend...
That's the reason that I put myself in your shoe when you need my hand..
I'm very sincere and willing to pull you out from what you're doing now....
But I can't, without actual information is given.

You can't just hide your problems under your bed...
Things will gone more and more complicated....
If you really love Him,
Tell him that you love him, and you wish to "upgrade" your relationship with him more than just BEST FRIEND FOREVER!!

Be strong and direct...
Get what you want from your heart...

It's not too late always!